These days it seems like everything has to go right the first time. We live with the feeling
constant that we must always be right, with no room for error, trial or error
rectify
That pressure, silent but persistent, forces us to move with fear and not with
Curiosity. But if we never failed, when would we actually learn? How?
We could compare, adjust our course, and know that what we choose is also...
What do we want, what is best for us?
Mistakes are necessary and we shouldn't see them as failures or shortcomings, but
as learning experiences. And I personally believe it's a luxury to accumulate experiences that
help us grow and distinguish in the future what is best for us.
Yesterday, by chance, the Chinese fable "Good luck, bad luck" came back into my hands.
"Good luck...who knows?" And it reminded me how much it resembles life. We insisted
in immediately labeling everything as “good” or “bad”, when in reality the
Long-term consequences are uncertain. What hurts today may open a door tomorrow.
door. What we celebrate today, tomorrow may teach us that it wasn't what it seemed.
We needed it.
That's why it's so important to learn to look at things from a distance. To breathe before judging.
Maintaining perspective and being patient in the face of the unexpected turns that life offers us
life and keep in mind that everything happens for a reason and that "something" only makes sense if
We know how to take advantage of it and turn it into growth, not an obstacle.
In the end, looking at life with perspective is also a way of living it. Offbeat, out
of the rhythm dictated by haste, immediate judgment, and the pressure to accept everything.
first.
Choosing our own path, full of mistakes, surprises, and lessons, that doesn't make us...
Forget that we are not here to follow a script, but to live our own way.